Chris is in a catch-4...the gay version to a catch-22. It is too early in the relationship to see if it has long term potential but then again Ian could be the one…the one he waited for…worth giving up a job for…. Love is a gamble and Chris needs to decide if he wants to risk his stability for potential love. Four months in gay years is a long time. Yet a change in country and lifestyle can seriously affect the dynamics in a relationship. If he stays..he could meet someone else in Sydney? What if Ian was the one…he should not let him go! Hey! Chris could use with a bit of change. Who really needs to have stability when they are 26? Leaving outside of Australia would give him a sense of independence and perspective…it would be a learning experience for him as well. And Canada is not that bad...Hey!

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There are days in life that seem insignificant: busy work Mondays, rainy Wednesdays and carefree Sunday. Then there are days that you know change your life. Today (well yesterday Amsterdam time) was one of them. I received my official offer of admission to study in Amsterdam, the University of Amsterdam to be exact. I’m moving to the Netherlands!

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It was a tough decision to make. I secretely wanted to tell Chris that I could not really assist him. That I would be happy just to have a boyfriend…and that I would be thrilled if someone asked me to come on an adventure with him and move to the other end of the world. But I knew as a friend I could only give him my opinion. I could not tell him whether he should stay or he should go… I told him to follow his gut (and guy) and his heart…and to live for the moment. Life is way too short. A friend from the States emailed me to tell me that he has cancer at 28. So Chris…live life without any regrets. No regrets to go and no regrets to stay. Remember that we are the choices we make. Australia will always be here...and so will Canada. Hey!

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Every relationship will test you at some point or another…and in order to get two to tango..you first need two to compromise. And in relationships, as in life…you must make decisions and select a road travelled by two or at times...only by one. It would be great if you could fast forward to the future to test out the choices you have made in life…a bit like Gwyneth Paltrow in Sliding Doors. Unfortunately, Chris has to decide whether to leave his home, family, friends and job to follow his boyfriend Ian to Canada..Hey!. Ian is cute, young and full of energy…hence his decision to spend two years doing a working holiday in Canada. Hey!

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So now that I am a man with a plan….I figured that I have around 12 months of no strings, safe sex in Sydney. There is no point to look for a relationship if I am leaving the country. My friend Mark reckons I will fall in love with an Aussie boy the minute I buy my air ticket to Europe. That is the funny thing with love…you can never plan for it and it can change your life plan. I am not buying an air ticket just yet, but my departure date is on my diary! I had been exchanging emails with this cute Kiwi (New Zealand) guy who was here in Sydney on business. He was staying at one of those posh hotels in North Sydney with panoramic views of the city skyline including the Opera House and the Harbour Bridge. Talk about a room with a view….

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